Ever see posts that do nothing but tear others down? I struggle inside to not lash out and become part of the Problem.
When I run into a bully or a totally rude person I don't run, I don't lower my head and on the internet I am flawed and do not shut up. I think its the Warrior instinct. Never run from a fight you did not pick or you will live watching your back.
Bullies find entertainment and self fulfillment on making others suffer.
Bullies have an Empty soul a never ending pit that can never be filled with others sadness and the bully will never be truly happy. Its a sickness of Weakness in their mind and the need to lash out and destroy others happiness out of jealousy and greed.
They lack the emotional tools to overcome internal conflict within themselves.
Bullies sometimes just need knocked out repeatedly until they get it that its not right and they will be met with actual physical force.
This is my opinion and I have this opinion because its worked every time I have used it.
I have done extensive research on this, the condition is called narcesistic traits, this is not the only disorder that causes this. Every person has this tendency and it is healthy most of the time. When it becomes so bad that the person is unable to feel empathy for others and is overcome by the need to control people thru force or manilulation in an abusive way, this is the culprit for many failed relationships and marriages.
ReplyDeleteThe desire to control others is wrong. The Desire to win someones willingness to want to help you is much better.
This is the old adage that you can ketch more flies with hony than with vinigar. Be kind to others so they want to help you and you will get much more help than if you force someone to do what you want. When you force people they will only do enough to shut you up. Where the other will go out of their way to make sure things are good for you. That is unless they are a narcassist and then hold their face in the water till they decide to change. Okay not literaly but force and consiquence will be needed to change this type of behavior. Thanks for reading this princess. :)